In a large mixing bowl combine the cornmeal, flour, sugar, salt, baking soda & black pepper
Create a well in the dry ingredients
Add the buttermilk & eggs into the well, then whisk to combine all ingredients
Add in the cheddar cheese mixture & combine
Warm cast iron skillet on low heat
Butter the bottom & sides of the cast iron skillet
Pull the cast iron skillet off the heat & make sure butter is spread evenly
Pour the cornbread mixture into the cast iron skillet
Heat oven at 425 degrees & cook for 15-20 minutes, or until golden brown
While the dish is in the oven, chop the jalapeño pepper finely
Mash softened butter until smooth & add in honey
Add in a quarter cup of the jalapeño pepper & combine
Take the browned cornbread out of the oven & top with jalapeño honey butter